Bridezillas Never look Attractive
Planning your wedding can be a stressful and emotional experience and it is all too easy to become yet another victim of Bridezilla Syndrome. However, with a little common sense, some humour and plenty of honest discussions, it is possible to enjoy your engagement, delight in the planning process and manage to keep your friends and loved ones.
Where the totally unexpected happens, try and stay calm – the following stress management tips may help you escape the dreaded Bridezilla Syndrome. Try to do whatever you can to avoid crying uncontrollably before your wedding as it will not help your wedding photography.
Evading Bridzilla Syndrome will also help preserve your judgment and wisdom and allow you to enjoy your special day.
The following stress management should help you escape the dreaded Bridezilla Syndrome.
1. Treat yourself and loved ones
Take time out from the planning to relieve the wedding pressure. Treat yourself to a massage or arrange to meet friends for a coffee.
2. Maintain a sense of humour
It’s best just to laugh off comments and not worry about people’s perceptions of what you should or shouldn’t do. Leading up to and on your wedding day, things can and often do, go awry just go with it.
3. Talk to your groom about his involvement
Some grooms like to be involved in the decision making processes that surround a wedding. Some just want to turn up on the day. Neither of you are mind readers, so be open and honest, talk it all through and be happy with your decisions it will prevent arguments and strain in the coming months.
4. Accept you can not control everything
Get a wedding planner to help with the fine detail in planning your french wedding. Wedding planners do the job for a living and will ease your worries without taking over.
5. Keep everything in perspective
Your future happiness does not depend on your wedding alone and a perfect wedding day does not guarantee a perfect marriage. Remember, it is ok to become absorbed by the wedding and yearn for a perfect day, but never forget what is truly important the union of two people in love and committed to each other in other words, the marriage.
6. Dont sweat the small stuff too much
A year down the line, details like the colour of the tasssels on the order of service and the colour of the aisle runner really won’t matter and will have been forgotten. Focus on the excitement and wonderful memories that you are creating and try not to sweat the small stuff!
7. A daily ‘wedding talk’ ban may save your sanity
Set yourself a time, say immediately after dinner after which there is to be no more wedding talk. This should happen on a daily basis! Not only will this allow you to free your mind of wedding stress, you’ll be able to discuss the other things that are happening in the lives of your friends and family.
Do not turn into a Bridezilla at your wedding in France. It spoils your french wedding photography.
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